Sometimes men don't really 'put their money where their mouth is' in the bedroom and this leads to serious problems with ladies, and 90% of infidelities in marriages and relationships is a clear results of men failing to man up in the bedroom.
Either Laziness and Ignorance are the main causes of poor performance in bed by men. There is little that can be said on the issue of Laziness because its one`s choice to keep on giving one excuse after the other whilst your lady is fuming with starvation, Except to advise you that she is in your life because she want to feel you inside her.Her parents, siblings and relatives would spoil her with the much needed love but would not bonk her. That`s why she left all of them to stick by you so that you can ruthlessly unleash your manhood into her using all styles and systems to make sure she is always satisfied.
Let me be also quick to let every man out there who thinks that being able to sire children is the definition of being a man. No. Don't ever say that in-front of a woman being starved of her conjugal rights, she will spit on your face. When you take your woman to bed, or if she strips naked for you, she really mean business and you have to just do your job bra.
For those who are ignorant, those selfish men who thinks its only about quenching their lust but leaving women half done, and those who don't even know what to do, here is a few tips to bigin with on what you should do in the bedroom to please your lady tonight and she will thank you countless time for making her climax
Satisfying A Woman Involves A Lot Of Things.
It’s not just about lying in bed and getting the job done. For women especially, intercourse means a lot, meaning men have to really step up their game behind closed doors. Many women complain about husbands being selfish when getting intimate. Love making is when both man and woman enjoy. Give her pleasure. Don't be selfish.
Always remember foreplay is very important to a woman. Don't rush it, don't ignore it or ever engage in sexual activity without first doing a comprehensive and exhaustive foreplay. I most cases if you take your time and do it properly, your lady will scream and beg you to put it inside her.
All things being equal, a woman gets excited by the thought that she has sexual power over you. Show her the effects of her power and how much you desire her to exploit you with her magic moves. A loving woman will be willing to please you sexually above and beyond if only you treat her right even when bonking is not the agenda during the night.
Many men because of lust filled mind they just focus on what’s between her legs. No! No! No! Listen, and listen very carefully gentlemen, her entire body needs your attention, care and love.
If her nakedness was for everyone, women would go about in the streets naked, but is reserved for you! And you only. Let her see you gaze at her with wonder and appreciation when she's naked before you, it makes her feel sexy, important and loved.
Faithfulness
At all cost be faithful, because, your faithfulness turns her on. Let her never suspect you are pursuing another woman, morally, sexually or emotionally. Don't just be faithful, but do not do things that make her suspect you of unfaithfulness. As you expect her to be faithful to you, do all it takes to make her enjoy being faithful. Don't let her struggle being loyal.
Touching
Never underestimate the magic power of touching and softly caressing your woman. Touch her skin, massage it, kiss it, and stroke it, and do everything that will make her feel that indeed, she is the only woman in your world of love.
Have Time For The Two Of You And Have Fun
Always Try to make an impression that she is prime and nothing can distract your attention to her. Don't be 'an-ever-busy-man' for your woman, have moments where it's all about giving her sexual pleasure. The more you do this, the more she will be sexually active towards you. She needs you to be naughty no matter her age. Grab her body, speak sexually to her, and flirt with her.
Acquire A Deeper Understanding Of Who She Is
Off the bedroom comments must also highly give praises of her nakedness, whispering to her how good you feel when fingering or touching her privates in a sensual way. Understand that each woman is unique. Find out your woman's sexual preferences.
Kissing
Sharpen your kissing skills man, because women love to make out when they are in love and treated well including being unlimited to deep and shallow kiss depending on the environment .
Praise And Complement Her Strengths In Bed
Don't be selfish man, praise what she sexually does to you. Tell her how great in bed she is, don't be a coward please! Tell her how good she is on top or under you and this motivates her. Let her know she has what it takes to drive you crazy.
Be particular and always compliment her dressing and specific parts of her body. Yes, clothes are just fabrics, but she wants to know what you think about her physical form. Remember that confidence is a turn on, but cockiness is a turn off.
Exercise Self Control During Lovemaking
Control yourself when inside her in order to delay your orgasm and last longer. Keep changing rhythm and positions communicating with her from time to time. If this is done properly, she will tell you if you have scored and make her orgasm, and you will do the same when pouring into her.
Pay Attention To detail During During Intimacy
Be very sensitive, give extreme attention to how her body responds to the sexual things you do. Whatever she responds positively to, do more of it, but if she freaks out stop and try something else.